(Witness how the “hurt” from a broken relationship becomes an unbreakable truth.)
- What is in the break-up that it becomes so painful?
- But why me?
- Why it still hurt when it’s already done?
- Why do the other side can easily get over?
- What’s in the “Truth” that it can eliminate all hurt?
- What should I do now?
Why there are break ups?
Ecc 3:1 To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:
Ecc 3:2 A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted;
Ecc 3:3 A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;
Ecc 3:4 A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance;
Ecc 3:5 A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
Ecc 3:6 A time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away;
Ecc 3:7 A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
Ecc 3:8 A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace.
What is in the break-up that it becomes so painful?
It is the broken relationship that has no real cuts, but you’ll better choose to bleed and swell than experience this one,(Well at least not for those that truly bleeds), the unseen cuts. But what is so painful after all?
>It’s his face, his memories, and the places that reminds a lot- after he’s gone
>You are already used to stand with somebody, and now it seems you are crippled
>It’s not the physical fighting, nor the word war, in fact it’s the silent thing you’ve done with him that rings aloud. Your intimacy that was broken
>Your sons and daughters that was left with you, they are like signatures that you will never forget
But this pain is not the most painful thing that one could have, it pales in comparison to what I will tell you
But why me?
There are more people like you who think and feels that you don’t deserve it.
>You are preparing to make it last since the very first day that you dreamed, but now it all ended
>All that you are up to is for good, when suddenly it became bad
>You’re not worthy of it and yet it came to your door uninvited, unexpected
>You’re the most sincere, adorable, dedicated, honest, beautiful, truthful, lovable person in all the world, but he has cheated on you
>You gave up everything for him, you gave all, and it seems he has deserted you and brought you when he left
>Every minute and every second, your heart only beats for him, but he no longer listen to the music of your heart
Why it still hurt when it’s already done?
The break-up is finished and it seems that the pain is unending and it keeps coming back. But the problem are these:
>Your door is still open and your hoping he’s coming back
>You wont let go, you still welcome him even if he’s going too far
>You’re too much expecting when in fact he pays you goodbye
>You still have, or possess those memories that he has left. Unless it’s not your kids-you can throw everything
>You still thought that he is your all when in fact he value you as nothing
>You still thought that you’re with him when in fact he’s gone with others
>You still thought the torn was still buried in your flesh. But the worst thing is that you are pressing it deeper because you’re not pulling it up. And you’re not pulling it out because you wont get up
>You remain silent when in fact you can speak
>You can’t move on because you’re moving back, and it wont move away because you are not moving up
Why do the other side can easily get over?
>Well, cheaters can do it easily, they are used to it
>Insincere people thought they can’t be sincerely hurt, but they wont tell you sincerely when it truly does
>The sower reaps a lot of harvest, sowing and reaping principle is still up
>You can’t see the pain that he is experiencing, he just can’t admit because of his pride, so he tries to fake it
>He has his time of pay day, and you have your time of great day
What are you doing?
>You think you have done everything in a relationship, and you have exhausted yourself and your resources has none left
>You’re afraid to try, or you have said you are trying, and still to no effect
>But you are not yet at your best, what you had is just a foretaste of what can come out from you
>Just think that only a little portion was lost, it’s just a dross. You haven’t lost a lot
>Let’s contemplate on this conversion
What’s in the “Truth” that it can eliminate all hurt?
The clip art above shows a four-letter word HURT, when you rearrange it from the last letter, which is letter “T”, it will give you “TRUH”. But supply the “CROSS” or the letter “T” before the last letter “H”, then it will give you Truth, unless you want to remain in hurt. You have to rearrange it and don’t remain on it. You have to accept something that must fill the gap. And this is where I want to lead you
The significance of this
You deserve something better, better relationship than what you just had. God is not yet finished with you. You think you’ve just been to what you wanted to, but not yet where God wants you. Good can still comes out of evil that was done, like in the case of Joseph(Gen.50:20), and so the joy within the sadness that one is experiencing. Gold has to be tried in flames of fire(Rev.3:18), even grapes are hard pressed to give something that becomes wine, and Diamond is made finest after many cuts, and surfing is at its best when waves are gigantic. God can allow all of this.
The most successful people are those hard pressed, broken, cast down, trampled-but never cared to give up. Paul and many others has this experience
2Co 4:7-10 But we have this treasure in earthen vessels, that the excellency of the power may be of God, and not of us.
We are troubled on every side, yet not distressed; we are perplexed, but not in despair;
Persecuted, but not forsaken; cast down, but not destroyed;
Always bearing about in the body the dying of the Lord Jesus, that the life also of Jesus might be made manifest in our body.
The message of the cross, the letter “T” that was supplied ,is bridging and building. And Christ Jesus is the One Who can fill every gap, every longing, every need, in fact-EVERYTHING that needs to be rearranged, which includes one’s healing from a broken relationship. He has experienced the most painful thing that one could have, even the sum of all of our pain is matchless and pales in comparison to what was done unto Him by all man. He can truly understand what we are all experiencing. You need Him and His words.
Everything in this world has purpose, has beginning, and an ending. Blogging stops, and so the hurting, but never the love that one can find in Christ, it’s unending. Christ is the TRUTH (Jn.14:6) and He will never fade (Heb.13:8). He loves you more than the one that breaks you. He is waiting for your response, He wants to build you up.
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